"Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them, and whose sins you retained are retained" - Jn. 20:23"
Often times people make mistakes, it is an undeniable fact of human nature. Some mistakes are greater than others and some mistakes may have a greater impact on those in one's own family as well as all those around them. The same can be said of sin: some sins bear greater weight than others, but they impact our relationship with God and the Church nonetheless.
God, in His loving kindness, understands human nature and knows how to aid us in our struggle for holiness. That is why He sent His only Son to die for our sins. Through the merits of the Passion, Death, and Resurrection of Jesus Christ as well the commission He gave to His Apostles, Christ instituted the Sacrament of Penance, or Reconciliation, in order for the faithful to make amends for their sins, renew their relationship with God, and resolve not to commit the same sins again. In Confession, the grace lost by sin is restored and our friendship of God is renewed and strengthened.
For some, the idea of pouring out the secrets from the deepest recesses of the soul may be a frightening and fearful thought and for others the thought of one's personal sins may feel like a burden that cannot be lifted. However, this sacrament was instituted by Christ to liberate those imprisioned by fear and to relieve the burden of sin from the shoulders of the sinner. As much as we desire to feel this forgiveness, it is Christ Who waits for us and longs for us to come to Him in the Confessional, and through His priests, He gives us His gentleness, comfort, healing, and guidance as we take that first step in rebuilding our lives.